I've told a few girls I was gay. Usually they laugh and don't buy it. BUT if you're talking to a girl who is trying waaay too hard to be cool, to the point where you are getting uncomfortable because she is being nervous/tryhard, telling her that you are gay is a good way to open her up. Then later, when you want to escalate, tell her you were just kidding, and if she asks why, tell her it's because she was trying too hard. This has worked for me once or twice.
Nowadays, that sort of quick banter is not really my style or vibe, and it just doesn't suit me. I also refuse to pretend to be something that I am not. I don't want to go through life faking X, Y, and Z things for a temporary upside, even if I have nothing to lose. It hurts my pride. That's just me though.
Nowadays, that sort of quick banter is not really my style or vibe, and it just doesn't suit me. I also refuse to pretend to be something that I am not. I don't want to go through life faking X, Y, and Z things for a temporary upside, even if I have nothing to lose. It hurts my pride. That's just me though.