Quote: (08-19-2013 01:00 PM)renotime Wrote:
You guys ever have to take phones from chicks during dates? I've done it a few times.
Obviously I pale in comparison to guys like thedude and mech though.
I have done this several times, but it's childish. Like baby who is saying, "pay attention to me". It assumes an argumentative/confrontational stance that frames both you and the girl on the same level. You have to be on a higher level if you are going to get laid.
The real shit is to not to have to this, and to pre-empt the iphone. Ideally, when she hangs with you she's totally wrapped up in your world that she doesn't even remember her iphone.
We should all strive for that seamless, tight, golden game.
Silver game is where you still get the bang but haven't created enough vibe and she's checking her iphone. The strategies I've outlined are more for silver game.
Bronze game is the up-hill battle and is essentially persistence and patience and attrition and you out lasting her and out willing her of a long period of time and drinks or whatever.