In the first few months that began learning game i would write out many goals that i wanted to accomplish each month. It was effective at first but after a few months i began obsessing over the goals and got mad when i didnt accomplish them. it seemed like i was taking this too serious so i stopped writing out goals for myself and instead just told myself that i should focus on a couple main goals instead of specific goals such as "invite five girls back to my place this month" or "take a shower with a chick". The main goals that i focus on now are similar to your goals.
1. Do what makes me happy without fear of judgment
2. Talk to girls that enter my orbit and progress from there.
3. Dont make girls my mission. (i stole that from roosh or mixx)
So far i have been alot happier with how things are going. I still fuck up everynow and then, but i dont go too hard on myself because i dont have a list of failed goals staring me in the face. That and im not forcing things or trying to hard to accomplish goals.
1. Do what makes me happy without fear of judgment
2. Talk to girls that enter my orbit and progress from there.
3. Dont make girls my mission. (i stole that from roosh or mixx)
So far i have been alot happier with how things are going. I still fuck up everynow and then, but i dont go too hard on myself because i dont have a list of failed goals staring me in the face. That and im not forcing things or trying to hard to accomplish goals.