[Ensam]

Sounds to me like you might be jumping ahead in your escalating. It should start really subtly, just gently guide her around and touch non-sexually. You have to get her used to your physical presence before jumping to things like kissing. Think of it like petting a cat who's super shy rather than petting a dog. You don't just run up and grab it, instead you place your leg so it's just barely touching the cat and you let the cat rub up against it. You get the idea.

Also never take a girls hand. Instead have her take your elbow. Chicks love that shit.



It's a lot easier to kiss her from this position too. When the moment is right just drop your arm around her waist and pull her in.