I've been listening to Tommy Sotomayor for about a year now and I have been pleased to finally see him getting more attention on the forum lately. This video is just a couple of days old and contains a lot of good points about marriage and why it doesn't add up for the modern western man of means. I highly recommend that all of you guys give this video a full view:
Know your enemy and know yourself, find naught in fear for 100 battles. Know yourself but not your enemy, find level of loss and victory. Know thy enemy but not yourself, wallow in defeat every time.