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i've had something similar in the past except the girl didn't explicitly come out and state it and kept asking me out for drinks/gigs/etc but turned down any attempts i made at kino or escalation
i was a bit butthurt at first but since then it has helped me to some extent, as i've stayed in touch sporadically and through her, i've expanded my social circle of cute foreign chicks, ok some are spoken for but all provide some social proof, as they're all reasonably good looking women