Don't let anyone on here tell you what you should want. If you do, that makes you as big of a bitch as being beta to your girl. If you want to bang 100 girls, do that. If you want to be with one good one, do that. But you probably want to make sure she really is a "good" one.
Being successful with girls is not only about being the man in the relationship, it's also about choosing the right girl. A girl who accepts gifts from her ex is not someone I'd take seriously.
Look, you're not going to change a girl. People don't change. I stopped trying to change people years ago. Now I just observe and decide what I want from her while evaluating her character. If she fucks up too often (or even just once if it's a big enough deal), I don't chastise. I just change my views and begin treating her accordingly. She will only see me when she comes to my place to bang and that's about it. When she gets tired of that, she'll move on.
You can't change others. You can only change yourself.
Being successful with girls is not only about being the man in the relationship, it's also about choosing the right girl. A girl who accepts gifts from her ex is not someone I'd take seriously.
Look, you're not going to change a girl. People don't change. I stopped trying to change people years ago. Now I just observe and decide what I want from her while evaluating her character. If she fucks up too often (or even just once if it's a big enough deal), I don't chastise. I just change my views and begin treating her accordingly. She will only see me when she comes to my place to bang and that's about it. When she gets tired of that, she'll move on.
You can't change others. You can only change yourself.