[Akula]

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I've warned her before of not speaking to exes and I know that it is him who is initiating the contact.

why do u care? Are you looking for an LTR with this one?

You do realize you're on a PUA forum that's generally against relationships unless you've b@nged 25+ women, are very mature and at the point of wanting to have kids, hanging up your player cleats, fully know and understand the consequences of marriage/divorce etc." right?

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I would prefer to keep her around as she is reliable and does what she needs to please me except during this situation. But in the end, I'm willing to lose her if she doesn't comply to my demands.

And your primary demands are no contact with exes? Again, why do you care so much?

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Is this betrayal of hers a relationship killer?

What relationship? Are you really that hung up on this one woman?

No offense, but quite frankly you've completely lost the frame, and need to get it back. IMO no man should ever act like this unless it's in some sort of LTR or marriage, and even then I think it's counterproductive.

She's clearly shit testing you a bit, has some feelings for this old guy, and/or is trying to make you jealous. And I think you clearly care a bit too much about this girl and have some form of oneitis. Maybe I'm wrong, u tell me, but it sure seems like you got way too emotional over something u should never get emotional about if you really want to be a bit of a player and date numerous women, when clearly that's not what women expect or like nor what anyone on the forum would advise.

I'd forget the radio silent treatment. Just act like you could care less (you SHOULD care less!) and move on. AntiTrace's dinner idea and 'I'm stressed at work' might be a way to explain your prior behavior, but dont' do it again. Try to keep her in the rotation but keep all the options open.