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Ultimately I think too many sex partners is bad for both men and women. Obviously that threshold is lower for women, but beyond a certain point, men as well will hit the law of diminishing returns and then it becomes psychologically damaging. Roosh's post was a good cautionary tale. I think as men, we need to make sure we had our fun and sowed our wild oats so that we don't spend the rest of our lives worry about what we might have missed out on. At t the same time we don't want to get to the point where we are incapable of actually loving a good woman that would be a great addition to our lives because we can't dispense with the thrill of new pussy.

The playa lifestyle if practiced on a large scale is socially destructive. It can only work if it's refined to just a few years of your life and for a relatively small number of men.