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At 11 on a weeknight earlier this year, her work finished, a slim, pretty junior at the University of Pennsylvania did what she often does when she has a little free time. She texted her regular hookup — the guy she is sleeping with but not dating. What was he up to? He texted back: Come over. So she did. They watched a little TV, had sex and went to sleep.
Their relationship, she noted, is not about the meeting of two souls.
“We don’t really like each other in person, sober,” she said, adding that “we literally can’t sit down and have coffee.”
Ask her why she hasn’t had a relationship at Penn, and she won’t complain about the death of courtship or men who won’t commit. Instead, she’ll talk about “cost-benefit” analyses and the “low risk and low investment costs” of hooking up.
“I positioned myself in college in such a way that I can’t have a meaningful romantic relationship, because I’m always busy and the people that I am interested in are always busy, too,” she said.
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http://nytimes.com/2013/07/14/fashion/se...m=homepage
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These women strike me as extremely shallow and self absorbed, even presumptuous, to think that you can hook up your way through undergrad and grad work and then just glide into the family thing, when you've created no predicate for, and have no real experience with, having a real relationship.
With this kind of emotionally stunted and undeveloped background, one can only imagine the familial dysfunction to follow.
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