you need to find the right place. If you go to small social circle bar where everyone knows each other, it would be hard to break into those circles and you will stand out when you are standing by yourself.
Some people say, get to know guys so he can introduce you to his friends group. But what kind of guys are going to take this 'lone wolf' to his herds? I don't like trying to join the group of guys either because once they realize you are own your own, they just think you are weird.
I talk to guys but I just keep it short and cut it there when I see a girl I want to approach. I say Use guys as a conversational partner between approaching girls.
If you are a club guy, it might be easier there since it's darker and loud. you will actually notice quite a few guys are there by themselves.
You need to find a right place and keep going there even though it's uncomfortable. you will get used to it and you will just act more natural. I remember I had to go outside to the patio to smoke frequently or keep going to the restroom because I felt weird standing by myself inside the bar.
It just takes time and you need to get out there. you can memorize all the rules and tricks but it won't happen overnight.
Some people say, get to know guys so he can introduce you to his friends group. But what kind of guys are going to take this 'lone wolf' to his herds? I don't like trying to join the group of guys either because once they realize you are own your own, they just think you are weird.
I talk to guys but I just keep it short and cut it there when I see a girl I want to approach. I say Use guys as a conversational partner between approaching girls.
If you are a club guy, it might be easier there since it's darker and loud. you will actually notice quite a few guys are there by themselves.
You need to find a right place and keep going there even though it's uncomfortable. you will get used to it and you will just act more natural. I remember I had to go outside to the patio to smoke frequently or keep going to the restroom because I felt weird standing by myself inside the bar.
It just takes time and you need to get out there. you can memorize all the rules and tricks but it won't happen overnight.