Honestly, once you're out of their house and off of their dime 100% just tell her quite simply:
Go f*ck yourself.
Seriously, it works wonders on ndividuals who are over bearing and can't mind their business. My mom is the same way, and ironically these women respond very well to displays of alphadom. Just tell her to buzz off and mind her business.
The healing will start once you do this. You won't need a shrink unless you want to air your dirty laundry. A good friend can help you overcome these complexes just as well as a good shrink.
Best of luck to you brother.
Go f*ck yourself.
Seriously, it works wonders on ndividuals who are over bearing and can't mind their business. My mom is the same way, and ironically these women respond very well to displays of alphadom. Just tell her to buzz off and mind her business.
The healing will start once you do this. You won't need a shrink unless you want to air your dirty laundry. A good friend can help you overcome these complexes just as well as a good shrink.
Best of luck to you brother.