I meet a girl and get her number. Depending on how much chemistry we shared and what we talked about about might text her 10 minutes later, an hour later, 2-3 hours later, later that night or the next day. I never wait more then 24-30 hours to send that first text.
A few examples:
me: "nice chatting with you -- Gio"
her: thanks, you too"
me: "lets have a drink or something later in the week"
her: "sounds good"
Then, I will text her the very next day or 2 days later..
me: "hey how did your thing go?"
her: "pretty good"
me: "congrats, what are you doing for dinner later, wanna go to the taco place?"
her: "not tonight, how bout thursday?
me: "okay, text you thursday afternoon"
her: "cool"
*****
Me: "good luck with that thing -- Gio"
her: "thank you, nice meeting you"
me "lets continue our chat later this week"
her: "ok"
me: "i have a soccer game wednesday night if you wanna come, we can get tacos after"
her: "k, i'll let you know"
*****
me: "nice meeting you -- Gio"
her: "you too"
me: "that was random but cool"
her: "i know right"
me: "that guy on the train was so funny"
her: "kind of weird"
me: "very weird, are you free saturday? Wanna get brunch at the farmers market?"
her: "how old are you"
me: "29, you?
her: "18
me: "you seem mature
her: "I've never dated anyone over 23"
me: "me neither"
her: "lol"
me: "we'll get smoothies and walk across the bridge"
her: k, text me later
*****
me: "hey christina, nice chatting with you"
her: "hi gio, how was your game?"
me: "amazing, now im home bbqing some fish"
her: "have fun"
me: "i will, lets hang soon"
her: "im not free til next week"
me: "k, i'll text you soon"
her: "ok"
*****
me: "Gio"
her: "Amanda"
me: "you're funny"
her: "why?"
me: "what you said to that guy"
her: "he was weird"
me: "lol, wanna get coffee tmw?"
her: "what time?
Basic stuff like that. Short and sweet. A little chit-chat and then set the date! If she won't commit to seeing me again, she is usually not interested.
I often bait them with offers of food. College girls are hungry and the food on campus sucks.
A few examples:
me: "nice chatting with you -- Gio"
her: thanks, you too"
me: "lets have a drink or something later in the week"
her: "sounds good"
Then, I will text her the very next day or 2 days later..
me: "hey how did your thing go?"
her: "pretty good"
me: "congrats, what are you doing for dinner later, wanna go to the taco place?"
her: "not tonight, how bout thursday?
me: "okay, text you thursday afternoon"
her: "cool"
*****
Me: "good luck with that thing -- Gio"
her: "thank you, nice meeting you"
me "lets continue our chat later this week"
her: "ok"
me: "i have a soccer game wednesday night if you wanna come, we can get tacos after"
her: "k, i'll let you know"
*****
me: "nice meeting you -- Gio"
her: "you too"
me: "that was random but cool"
her: "i know right"
me: "that guy on the train was so funny"
her: "kind of weird"
me: "very weird, are you free saturday? Wanna get brunch at the farmers market?"
her: "how old are you"
me: "29, you?
her: "18
me: "you seem mature
her: "I've never dated anyone over 23"
me: "me neither"
her: "lol"
me: "we'll get smoothies and walk across the bridge"
her: k, text me later
*****
me: "hey christina, nice chatting with you"
her: "hi gio, how was your game?"
me: "amazing, now im home bbqing some fish"
her: "have fun"
me: "i will, lets hang soon"
her: "im not free til next week"
me: "k, i'll text you soon"
her: "ok"
*****
me: "Gio"
her: "Amanda"
me: "you're funny"
her: "why?"
me: "what you said to that guy"
her: "he was weird"
me: "lol, wanna get coffee tmw?"
her: "what time?
Basic stuff like that. Short and sweet. A little chit-chat and then set the date! If she won't commit to seeing me again, she is usually not interested.
I often bait them with offers of food. College girls are hungry and the food on campus sucks.