A good technique that Krauser put out there was to meet up with a girl and then get her comfortable with visiting your apartment by saying "Let's stop at my place first, I need to drop my bag off and then we'll go to [X]." You're putting a time constraint on the visit, so she shouldn't be uncomfortable with it.
After you get her back to your place, transition to some Wii or XBox Kinect and THEN do kino.
After you get her back to your place, transition to some Wii or XBox Kinect and THEN do kino.