I have also lived in *very* dangerous cities. It can work to your advantage with girls if you can get her to see you as an insider. A safe harbour in the storm. I know that the feeling in the Roissysphere is that girls like dangerous guys, but that changes a bit when a place is geniunly dangerous without a reliable safety net. If nearly everyone in the city is seen as a potential murderer or rapist and a girl actually does feel unsafe, rather than just entertaining a little fantasy (eg slumming), her priorities usually change.
So, try to find something in common with the girls you're gaming and play up that angle. Say you are talking to a girl on the Transmelineo and you find out she goes to your university, or even another school. Say something like "Hey I also go to Bogota University, I'm studying Blah. What do you think of the new cafetaria that just opened up...."
So, try to find something in common with the girls you're gaming and play up that angle. Say you are talking to a girl on the Transmelineo and you find out she goes to your university, or even another school. Say something like "Hey I also go to Bogota University, I'm studying Blah. What do you think of the new cafetaria that just opened up...."