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play solid game and pull the trigger when she's ready. going home early on might raise defenses in girl which slows down the process 10x

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Is it ever too early to bring a girl back to your place? No, I don't think so. Contrary to what a lot of guys say, spending lots of quality time in an effort to build trust so she'll bang you doesn't really work. Compliment + Cuddle is a shitty strategy.

I see it working well but compliment + cuddle combo has nothing to do with comfort/trust.

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After the first round of drinks, I got up and told her "let's go" and led her straight to my place without telling her where we were going. However, at my place, her vibe was completely opposite from before--uneasy and sitting with crossed legs facing away from me, etc.

i think that was wrong move there. trying a big jump from bar chair straight to bed. next time try babystepping. move her around a bit even inside the venue. change locations. create a mini history together. do that until you're in front of your house and it's easy little step to get inside.

you can pull her quickly and fight uphill battle with her cold shoulder or you can do your best outside your house and pull when she's more/less ready [warmed up/interested/excited].

relevant:
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-24262-...#pid456144