Two set of tourist: walking along ocean drive with a friend I noticed these women typing away on their iPhones sitting at an outdoor table. My quick analysis confirmed they matched what I was looking for: tourist (check), two women alone (check), European (check), bangable (check). I stopped by the table and opened them with this line: are you two texting each other? They look up and laughed. Continued the conversation, they invited us to join them. After a little while I started kino on the one I was sitting next to. Ok, so here are the mistakes in chronological order:
1. My friend got into a few arguments with the other girl. She called him out on not having facebook and he didn't have a good response. She was talkative and kept telling him he wasn't talking. Basically, it wasn't clicking between the two of them and I realized this.
2. The discussion got to what are we going to do next and I didn't have a plan. I should have been thinking of it but I was too focused on my kino activities.
We eventually went to Clevelanders down the street because it was just nearby but very soon after getting there they dumped us. The bottom line was my friend wasn't getting along with the other girl and this was obvious from the table. I wasn't going to be able to isolate my girl because they were out together. If anything that also messed me up because the other girl was the leader not the one I was with. (Unless the leader of a group of girls is having a good time she will make sure no one else in that group is either. You have to take care of the alpha female of a group or neutralize her.) To get a two set of tourist you need to either have a wing that works with the other girl or hope she finds someone she likes. It's very difficult to isolate one tourist from a two set.
The lessons to learn here: don't get into UNNECESSARY and MEANINGLESS arguments with girls, there is nothing to be gained from this. In a two set (two couples) if one person fails everyone fails. My friend was also tired, low energy level never helps. If you are feeling tired you might as well don't even bother going out. Girls will always view a low energy level as a lack of interest in them. It's important to understand I am not blaming him. With a different set the situation could easily have been reversed where I didn't click with the girl.
I did throw a Hail Mary pass though and got the facebook information of the one I was with. They are going to be coming back to Miami in a few months so I will get another crack at her and this time I already know how to get some alone time with her so I won't need a wing. (She likes going to the beach and her sister doesn't.) If you can catch a tourist at the beginning of her stay it's much easier to arrange something where you are alone with her.
1. My friend got into a few arguments with the other girl. She called him out on not having facebook and he didn't have a good response. She was talkative and kept telling him he wasn't talking. Basically, it wasn't clicking between the two of them and I realized this.
2. The discussion got to what are we going to do next and I didn't have a plan. I should have been thinking of it but I was too focused on my kino activities.
We eventually went to Clevelanders down the street because it was just nearby but very soon after getting there they dumped us. The bottom line was my friend wasn't getting along with the other girl and this was obvious from the table. I wasn't going to be able to isolate my girl because they were out together. If anything that also messed me up because the other girl was the leader not the one I was with. (Unless the leader of a group of girls is having a good time she will make sure no one else in that group is either. You have to take care of the alpha female of a group or neutralize her.) To get a two set of tourist you need to either have a wing that works with the other girl or hope she finds someone she likes. It's very difficult to isolate one tourist from a two set.
The lessons to learn here: don't get into UNNECESSARY and MEANINGLESS arguments with girls, there is nothing to be gained from this. In a two set (two couples) if one person fails everyone fails. My friend was also tired, low energy level never helps. If you are feeling tired you might as well don't even bother going out. Girls will always view a low energy level as a lack of interest in them. It's important to understand I am not blaming him. With a different set the situation could easily have been reversed where I didn't click with the girl.
I did throw a Hail Mary pass though and got the facebook information of the one I was with. They are going to be coming back to Miami in a few months so I will get another crack at her and this time I already know how to get some alone time with her so I won't need a wing. (She likes going to the beach and her sister doesn't.) If you can catch a tourist at the beginning of her stay it's much easier to arrange something where you are alone with her.