Generally, I'd want to design a site around DHVing men and forcing women to limit their options and make commitments to individual men.
1. I would prevent men from sending customized initial messages. Across the board. NO woman would get to judge a man's creativity by his opening salvo.
2. Most male profile information would be hidden at the start. The site would market the men to the women using teasers, and then women would have to engage with the men to unlock the additional pictures and personal information in the profile.
3. Men would still be tacitly expected to take the initiative with regards to arranging dates.
4. Ages would be hidden at all times. Age requirements could be specified and there would be some sort of system for dating photos.
5. There would be some sort of online forum or arena for men to do things where women could observe but not participate.
6. Women would be limited in the number of full male profiles they would be able to view at one time.
With all the restrictions on women, the only way this would work is if the site had good men on it and the site really sold them. Men would be marketed to the women but the women would NOT be marketed to the men. There would be no attempts to push older/uglier women on beta men who don't want them anyway.
Basically, apart from optional participation in forums/arenas and filling out profile information, men would not be expected to do anything proactive until a woman took interest in him. In fact he'd be prevented from doing so. Again this has the double benefit of keeping down spam to attractive women and helping men not shoot themselves in the foot with lame openers. This also levels the playing field a bit, which currently favors men who are really good at writing bullshit online profiles. The site would take care of the initial bullshitting.
1. I would prevent men from sending customized initial messages. Across the board. NO woman would get to judge a man's creativity by his opening salvo.
2. Most male profile information would be hidden at the start. The site would market the men to the women using teasers, and then women would have to engage with the men to unlock the additional pictures and personal information in the profile.
3. Men would still be tacitly expected to take the initiative with regards to arranging dates.
4. Ages would be hidden at all times. Age requirements could be specified and there would be some sort of system for dating photos.
5. There would be some sort of online forum or arena for men to do things where women could observe but not participate.
6. Women would be limited in the number of full male profiles they would be able to view at one time.
With all the restrictions on women, the only way this would work is if the site had good men on it and the site really sold them. Men would be marketed to the women but the women would NOT be marketed to the men. There would be no attempts to push older/uglier women on beta men who don't want them anyway.
Basically, apart from optional participation in forums/arenas and filling out profile information, men would not be expected to do anything proactive until a woman took interest in him. In fact he'd be prevented from doing so. Again this has the double benefit of keeping down spam to attractive women and helping men not shoot themselves in the foot with lame openers. This also levels the playing field a bit, which currently favors men who are really good at writing bullshit online profiles. The site would take care of the initial bullshitting.