Quote: (04-10-2013 09:13 PM)4profit Wrote:
Quote: (04-10-2013 06:16 AM)XXL Wrote:
Agree ^^
Blueprint is great but it's only for people who got fundamentals down and experience under their belt. It's never ending seminar about inner confidence. Imagine listening to a top notch race car engineer giving lecture about how some subtle tuning tweaks influence your racing times by miliseconds. It's useless unless you're already good driver.
The book version I posted is less intense.
So why do Tyler and RSD get so much hate in the manosphere? What I read in the link you posted was really clear and informative. If anything, Tyler should be getting way more props for what he does.
On a somewhat related note, should a newbie focus on developing inner game before actually gaming, or are inner game and confidence cultivated through the actual act of gaming? I'm getting some conflicting info on this.
That book was great in 2006 ii still is but now it's more like "yeah of course" cause the content is already obvious. As for RSD, Tyler made it easy to hate haha.. advanced/esoteric content, total ignorance, overall irreverence, polarizing public image. As for manosphere, who cares. It doesn't matter what is said but who is saying it. Unless they try the shit they judge it's irrelevant what they think.
For a new guy I'd suggest to get as many reference experiences as you can in the shortest amount of time. Then as you get some victories here and there focus on what you did right then and also take lessons from your fuck ups. You'll learn quickly that rejection is no big deal so you'll get inner game handled and get more relaxed, cause it's like "whatever i'm student of the game i'm learning", your big pimp self image won't limit you. And by getting mixed results you'll also learn outer game like opening leading closing etc. And in the meantime you can ask people on the forums about the problems you experienced to decode them [after you encountered them, not before]. So it's always a balance between attitude and skills.
Make sense?