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(03-22-2013 04:49 PM)Prophylaxis Wrote:  

My last LTR for 3 years, I rarely slept over. She hated this, but it allowed to get A LOT more done throughout the day. People say you adjust to it, but I would never wake up as refreshed or be as productive. Also if you have half a libido you're resting a semi chub the entire night and will end up inside her at one point or another.

I can see the benefits of sleeping together for women (mainly security and comfort) - but for the men, what benefits do they stand to gain?

A new girl I'm trying to bed (but haven't successfully yet) stayed at my place until 3 AM (another story entirely) and then didn't want to sleep there, chose to go home (she has a big dog and she had to work the next day). She also mentioned that she doesn't sleep well with others, but said it might be because of becoming pretty turned off by her last ex (end of a 5 year relationship). I wondered about this, but it does make sense that you'd get less quality sleep if you're waking each other up through natural movement while asleep.

I've always enjoyed passing out with a girl's head on my chest, but maybe that's just because it's almost always post-coital. I wonder if even after bedding this chick it's not a bad idea to just never sleep with her for my own benefit as well as supposedly hers.