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(03-07-2013 05:25 PM)CaliforniaKing Wrote:  

Man I read everybody's different posts and threads on here and I feel like I'm SO far behind!

I'm a 19 year old sophomore at a university. Girls are EVERYWHERE, and it seems the older I get the more I catch girls, sometimes even grown women checking me out. However, I have never approached a girl I didn't know and asked for her phone number.

Everytime I tell myself that I am going to approach a girl, I seem to get this paralyzing intial fear. The longer I wait to approach, the more the fear grows. I was hoping that you guys could share some techniques or tricks that you use to help get past that initial fear, and maybe some nice openers?

Chris Rex, a pick up artist I speak fondly of, emailed me this when I asked him about other ways to get over your fear of approaching since I told him I was scared as fuck and had a retarded amount of doubts when talking to women.

It was quite inspirational and I ended up starting to take on a I don't give a fuck attitude.

THE EMAIL

NOTE: I doubt he'd care that I'm posting this here, he was cool as fuck about spreading his ideas and such, and this isn't uber personal or anything. Plus I don't know what in the world happened to him, hopefully he's still banging bitches and living an exciting life.

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Ok so you have doubts. How have things been going the way you've done them? If they are working for you then you wouldn't be in the situation you are in. People have a tendency to doubt the un-tried and unknown, so they find comfort in sticking to their same old, unsuccessful ways. There are a million reasons to doubt something.

Look dude, this is up to you. No one in your life gives a fuck if you get good at pickup. So you either follow my instructions in the book or you do not. What you do now will directly determine the outcome of the rest of your life. Choose wisely, you only get one chance.

Never ask a girl questions that make her think. Go up to a girl and ask her to marry you. When she laughs, hold her hand and tell her she's your new girlfriend then kiss her cheek. Then bring her to your friends and introduce her as your gf. Then sit her down and tell her that you never go out, and that its rare you find someone you can actually talk to. Then talk to her.