There is no best way to approach than just to approach. You're rationalising reasons why you haven't or won't approach such has having beta traits, not having a high of fucking a girl on the regular at the moment, not being the best looking, going to the same bars and so on. This happens with every guy, so don't worry about it too much as you can overcome it.
How many bars are you visiting on the regular? You need to switch it up a bit but also approach the girls in those bars. Who says you're going to fail and get rejected by them (rationalising again) so other girls will get put off and you don't want a bad rep? You won't know until you try. If you're worried about it at first, which naturally you will be, take one of your mates with you and leave him at the bar while you go chat to a girl. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. At least then you get to go back to your mate and laugh it off and show to anyone that's looking that you're not affected by it. Try that when you're starting off, going solo is hard and takes balls.
If a girl calls you over, shake your head and give the girl the "you, come here" finger instead. That way you're in control of the girl and she is submissive to your commands. It will also work in your favour if you're sitting alone and the girl has to come to you so you have her isolated instead of being the bitch around all her friends. Unless you have tight game and can control a pack of women, I'd recommend doing that.
If you're getting girls coming to you and stroking your hair it's an obvious sign of attraction. Thankfully, I'm pretty quick with my wit when I'm talking to girls but if you're not, then I suggest you write a few lines down to use in that situation to get some flirty conversation going. Something like "is that your equivalent to your chat up line? It's rubbish" or "is this what you do, just stroke random people's hair? Pervert" or "hey girls, I think you need to put your mate on a leash. She's going crazy here". Simple shit like that which will aid you.
You just need to approach. Until you actually just do it, you'll keep rationalising (wrongfully) and keep putting it off. You'll feel better for doing it but make sure you're prepared with a few lines if you're not quick witted. You've got a great "peacock" going on, you should be using that to its full extent.
How many bars are you visiting on the regular? You need to switch it up a bit but also approach the girls in those bars. Who says you're going to fail and get rejected by them (rationalising again) so other girls will get put off and you don't want a bad rep? You won't know until you try. If you're worried about it at first, which naturally you will be, take one of your mates with you and leave him at the bar while you go chat to a girl. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. At least then you get to go back to your mate and laugh it off and show to anyone that's looking that you're not affected by it. Try that when you're starting off, going solo is hard and takes balls.
If a girl calls you over, shake your head and give the girl the "you, come here" finger instead. That way you're in control of the girl and she is submissive to your commands. It will also work in your favour if you're sitting alone and the girl has to come to you so you have her isolated instead of being the bitch around all her friends. Unless you have tight game and can control a pack of women, I'd recommend doing that.
If you're getting girls coming to you and stroking your hair it's an obvious sign of attraction. Thankfully, I'm pretty quick with my wit when I'm talking to girls but if you're not, then I suggest you write a few lines down to use in that situation to get some flirty conversation going. Something like "is that your equivalent to your chat up line? It's rubbish" or "is this what you do, just stroke random people's hair? Pervert" or "hey girls, I think you need to put your mate on a leash. She's going crazy here". Simple shit like that which will aid you.
You just need to approach. Until you actually just do it, you'll keep rationalising (wrongfully) and keep putting it off. You'll feel better for doing it but make sure you're prepared with a few lines if you're not quick witted. You've got a great "peacock" going on, you should be using that to its full extent.