[YoungGunner]

This is why marriage is and is becoming an increasingly bad idea. I wanna have kids one day but not gonna get married, the whole standards and expectations invoked by marriage and relationships are idiotic and detrimental. Women get more inflated egos and think they can start giving demands and get lazy, they don't realize that these unfeminine and selfish qualities aren't for their own good. My grandad told me when I was 6 "Make sure you only find yourself with humble girls." If you have no "marriage contract" to fall back on and your chick has no control of your finances or actions, she'll know to keep her ass in line and try that much harder to stop you from walking away by being a good, respectful woman who always tries to please you. Remember, prevention is better than cure.