Maybe other guys can offer different perspective, for me the only time sexualizing through texts has helped me was when 2 conditions were met: 1) she was initiating the texts and 2) I had already established a lot of comfort, either taken her out on a first date but did not close because or last minute resistance or bad logistics (i.e. more than just a 30 min conversation at a bar). I think a lot of people will say "you can't build attraction through text" but I disagree in certain circumstances, because I have kept some leads alive through texts and the girls referenced my texts in face to face conversations a week later. It will establish a sexual frame for the next face to face interaction. That means it was memorable and they were thinking about me.
Assuming these parameters are met, one good tactic is try to get her to send you a picture. Doesn't have to be anything too scandalous, a t-shirt and panties is good and means she is investing. You want to be more conservative though, 2 strong sexual texts in a row is pushing it.
Assuming these parameters are met, one good tactic is try to get her to send you a picture. Doesn't have to be anything too scandalous, a t-shirt and panties is good and means she is investing. You want to be more conservative though, 2 strong sexual texts in a row is pushing it.