00 Approach Study: New York
02-25-2013, 09:58 PM
Finally got settled in NY. I'd been putting off pulling the trigger on starting this and then the other day in Subway, I saw a cute girl behind the counter and decided now was a good time to start my 100 approaches.
Approach #1
The girl taking my order was so-so, but the second girl behind the counter had her back to me. Her body was awesome and when she turned around I realized she was a butterface. It made me feel a little more boisterous, and I thought back and forth on whether or not to talk to her. I was wearing gym shorts and a grey hoodie, unshaven etc so not feeling fly but whatever. She rang me up at the register and I noticed her nails were multi-colored, but chipped and fucked up looking beyond belief. I said to her with a smirk, "Those nails look like they need to be done pretty soon." She laughed and lit up, and she told me they are always effed up because she is an artist and works with paint. Despite the bait drop I didn't follow it up too strongly. We bantered a little bit and she accused me of making fun of her nails. I told her I was just giving her a friendly tip (in a cocky tone). Nice little flirtatious convo, for whatever reason I felt like "Oh this was a good first approach! Better not fuck it up" so I just left after that without escalating. Def could have swooped her though, she was very open to chatting with me.
Going to do two approaches per day bare minimum. A sticking point of mine is like the above, I'll often eject early if things go well just because I don't want them to get awkward. It's out of fear though, so I need to master that emotion and not let it fuck my shit up.
Approach #1
The girl taking my order was so-so, but the second girl behind the counter had her back to me. Her body was awesome and when she turned around I realized she was a butterface. It made me feel a little more boisterous, and I thought back and forth on whether or not to talk to her. I was wearing gym shorts and a grey hoodie, unshaven etc so not feeling fly but whatever. She rang me up at the register and I noticed her nails were multi-colored, but chipped and fucked up looking beyond belief. I said to her with a smirk, "Those nails look like they need to be done pretty soon." She laughed and lit up, and she told me they are always effed up because she is an artist and works with paint. Despite the bait drop I didn't follow it up too strongly. We bantered a little bit and she accused me of making fun of her nails. I told her I was just giving her a friendly tip (in a cocky tone). Nice little flirtatious convo, for whatever reason I felt like "Oh this was a good first approach! Better not fuck it up" so I just left after that without escalating. Def could have swooped her though, she was very open to chatting with me.
Going to do two approaches per day bare minimum. A sticking point of mine is like the above, I'll often eject early if things go well just because I don't want them to get awkward. It's out of fear though, so I need to master that emotion and not let it fuck my shit up.