Quote: (02-10-2013 12:03 PM)Thatdude Wrote:
Not a troll thread.
Just wondering how you seasoned players deal with shit like when girls you've been banging eventually don't put up with your shit anymore and say fucked up shit to you like..."you actually disgust me, don't ever call or talk to me again" "you aren't a man, your still just a boy," etc. stuff like this. does it ever take its toll on you, how do you deal with it?
i mean yeah for all the alpha beta talk, it still doesn't exactly feel great knowing you've made someone else so upset...i don't do it on purpose...i'm a nice dude and i was a nice guy before i learned game, so this whole asshole/fuck feelings shit doesn't come first nature to me.
what really made me feel like a dick and make this thread was last night i was hanging out with a girl for the third time, the second time we banged, and after we hooked up we just started talking about shit, i thought i had made it very apparent that we were just going to keep things casual, but for some reason as we kept talking she just got more and more worked up and upset. its only the third time we've ever hung out mind you. eventually she starts crying (not bawling), just tearing up, and tells me "you should just leave." wtf? so naturally i leave...i dont know if i should apologize to her or just let it be. i haven't banged 20+ chicks or anything like that so forgive me for sounding a little naive, but how do you guys deal with shit like this. do you just charge it to the game?
And another case of someone trying to manipulate the guy with shaming tatics. She is trying to beat you down and make you a Herb. If you didn't promise anything, you don't owe her anything.