Quote: (02-10-2013 12:03 PM)Thatdude Wrote:
Not a troll thread.
what really made me feel like a dick and make this thread was last night i was hanging out with a girl for the third time, the second time we banged, and after we hooked up we just started talking about shit, i thought i had made it very apparent that we were just going to keep things casual, but for some reason as we kept talking she just got more and more worked up and upset. its only the third time we've ever hung out mind you. eventually she starts crying (not bawling), just tearing up, and tells me "you should just leave." wtf? so naturally i leave...i dont know if i should apologize to her or just let it be. i haven't banged 20+ chicks or anything like that so forgive me for sounding a little naive, but how do you guys deal with shit like this. [b]do you just charge it to the game?[/b]
The best wya I've found is a preventative method. Be up front about your intentions from the beginning, instead of assuming or guessing if you both have the same thing in mind moving forward. If you want something casual, and she wants something more, don't sleep with her and you don't have that problem. There are millions of women who will be looking for what you are, go find them instead.