[Moma]

(12-04-2010 12:17 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:  

If they're being terribly flakey just forget them.

But also know that a good way to combat flakiness is to build rapport and/or attraction. If you're not seeing them, sometimes chatting with them a LITTLE will help get them to come out. So texting, while not ''manly'' is a way to make her feel like you're more a part of her life, and feel worse about flaking on you.

It seems you are right. I sent a text asking one about clubs/bars where women of her culture frequent (under the pretense that I was going to take my cousin there since he was out of town).
She responded promptly with some details and address of a good spot.
I did go there this Saturday evening for about an hour to scout the talent.

She sent me a text the other day asking me if I went there and if so, how it was.
I responded saying it was excellent and that the culture is beautiful.
She then sent a text requesting a second date.
I told her she should come over and 'chill' at my crib.
She agreed and will arrange sometime this week.
I know it's counting chickens before they are hatched.

I need to pimp out my spot a little so I can facilitate the act of getting my leg over. I need to buy one of those teddies that Mixx is rocking and maybe get a DVD player or something.
My place is very spartan which I like but is not conduicive to getting punnies soaking, unless she is really craven for bloated sausage.