You mentioned me too..so here's my .02
""To what extent do you guys actually appreciate the company of the girls you are with?"
I love my MOM a lot like G too, I give her everything her heart desires, and still look for ways to please her (she's earned that) and now especially since she has MS, I try to give her the best possible life she can have, for whatever time I have left with her.
I appreciate a girls company a lot, but only when there is truly no hidden ulterior motives behind her company. i.e getting her into a movie premier to meet celebs, hooking her up with agents I know because she thinks she is the next Donna Karan, Cameron Diaz or Eva Mendes. Or flat out thinking she's going to have a cushy lifestyle because she will trick me into marriage and take 90% of my assets and dignity.
Women always want something...as much as I hate to think this, it's always been the case at least for me, and I just turned 36 a month ago. This desire of wanting something is proven every time you meet a woman and have to DHV to even hold her interest in talking to you.
However, I notice that in many countries outside US (surprisingly even in Canada) there are wonderful women out there. Thing is, being a player all my life, I was never really ready to come across one.
I had a relationship when I was around your age, 22, and it lasted 5 years (I did not cheat). The more I invested in the relationship, the more she eventually went from being the sweet, naive woman I met, to a cold, I'm a princess give me everything that is my right as a female to have nightmare. It seems she always feared losing me, and her raging insecurities about that drove us to the point of breaking-up. She still writes to me today, but I never go back to a woman I previously released - ever. Especially since I caught her in little lies many times and lost trust in her word.
"Are your jokes because you want to loosen them up for when you try to make out with them or to impress them or are your jokes because you like seeing a babe's face light up because of something you said?'
Depends on the girl really. I love making the women in my family laugh and light up with humor, but a girl I intend on just banging is done to build comfort and loosen them up. It's rare that women appreciate good humor in a man. I don't care how much they preach wanting a good man with a sense of humor.
"Game is for people who just haven't learned how to or haven't the means to be a G anyways."
Agreed. A few guys who are here on the forum I've personally met will testify that my style is natural without structure. I never actually read The Game, and got hold off Roosh's Bang book by an unknown guy who left it behind at a cafe (I bought my own copy afterwards to read for enjoyment).
"Do you consider game and banging mad hot chicks your lifestyle, no girlfriends, no wives, no emotional connection."
At my age of 36, it is hard to emotionally connect at a deep level with a woman. I've been through so much in life that she has to be very confident, successful in life, her family and career, and especially fun. Those girls are not easy to come by, and when you do meet them, someone got to them before you did. Now, it becomes a game of swooping a married woman which negates the first part of my answer.
I agree with your dad's advice. Once you become a full player, it is extremely hard to be faithful. It would take a spiritual epiphany on my part to become a one woman man again. And that will only happen if the woman I intend to be faithful with is just plain an incredible woman willing to invest that much in me.
However, loyalty has a price. Choose the wrong girl, and she will destroy you emotionally, and possibly scar you for life. Like mine did.
Today, I've had so many women, it kind of handicaps my ability to believe that faithful women exist without compromise and huge risk. Is it worth it in teh end after you are 50 and it's not Christmas eve? I doubt it. I've seen many 60 year old men live happy in countries with women 30 sometimes 40 years their junior, so maybe taht will be me.
It's Ironic, but my brother, 23, is not a player like me - and is so head over heels for a girl who already had a kid form a previous relationship. He lives with her, and is raising her kid. I hope to heavens I am wrong about being a player and he does not get hurt 10 years down the road with regrets of what he did not do.
I guess I'll quote Al Pacino "Never get attached to anything, that a sudden drop of a hat, you can release and walk away from, for that will be what destroys you"
Have fun in life, the way you feel life should be lived by your standards. With one woman or 1,000. If your lucky to have either.
Mixx
""To what extent do you guys actually appreciate the company of the girls you are with?"
I love my MOM a lot like G too, I give her everything her heart desires, and still look for ways to please her (she's earned that) and now especially since she has MS, I try to give her the best possible life she can have, for whatever time I have left with her.
I appreciate a girls company a lot, but only when there is truly no hidden ulterior motives behind her company. i.e getting her into a movie premier to meet celebs, hooking her up with agents I know because she thinks she is the next Donna Karan, Cameron Diaz or Eva Mendes. Or flat out thinking she's going to have a cushy lifestyle because she will trick me into marriage and take 90% of my assets and dignity.
Women always want something...as much as I hate to think this, it's always been the case at least for me, and I just turned 36 a month ago. This desire of wanting something is proven every time you meet a woman and have to DHV to even hold her interest in talking to you.
However, I notice that in many countries outside US (surprisingly even in Canada) there are wonderful women out there. Thing is, being a player all my life, I was never really ready to come across one.
I had a relationship when I was around your age, 22, and it lasted 5 years (I did not cheat). The more I invested in the relationship, the more she eventually went from being the sweet, naive woman I met, to a cold, I'm a princess give me everything that is my right as a female to have nightmare. It seems she always feared losing me, and her raging insecurities about that drove us to the point of breaking-up. She still writes to me today, but I never go back to a woman I previously released - ever. Especially since I caught her in little lies many times and lost trust in her word.
"Are your jokes because you want to loosen them up for when you try to make out with them or to impress them or are your jokes because you like seeing a babe's face light up because of something you said?'
Depends on the girl really. I love making the women in my family laugh and light up with humor, but a girl I intend on just banging is done to build comfort and loosen them up. It's rare that women appreciate good humor in a man. I don't care how much they preach wanting a good man with a sense of humor.
"Game is for people who just haven't learned how to or haven't the means to be a G anyways."
Agreed. A few guys who are here on the forum I've personally met will testify that my style is natural without structure. I never actually read The Game, and got hold off Roosh's Bang book by an unknown guy who left it behind at a cafe (I bought my own copy afterwards to read for enjoyment).
"Do you consider game and banging mad hot chicks your lifestyle, no girlfriends, no wives, no emotional connection."
At my age of 36, it is hard to emotionally connect at a deep level with a woman. I've been through so much in life that she has to be very confident, successful in life, her family and career, and especially fun. Those girls are not easy to come by, and when you do meet them, someone got to them before you did. Now, it becomes a game of swooping a married woman which negates the first part of my answer.
I agree with your dad's advice. Once you become a full player, it is extremely hard to be faithful. It would take a spiritual epiphany on my part to become a one woman man again. And that will only happen if the woman I intend to be faithful with is just plain an incredible woman willing to invest that much in me.
However, loyalty has a price. Choose the wrong girl, and she will destroy you emotionally, and possibly scar you for life. Like mine did.
Today, I've had so many women, it kind of handicaps my ability to believe that faithful women exist without compromise and huge risk. Is it worth it in teh end after you are 50 and it's not Christmas eve? I doubt it. I've seen many 60 year old men live happy in countries with women 30 sometimes 40 years their junior, so maybe taht will be me.
It's Ironic, but my brother, 23, is not a player like me - and is so head over heels for a girl who already had a kid form a previous relationship. He lives with her, and is raising her kid. I hope to heavens I am wrong about being a player and he does not get hurt 10 years down the road with regrets of what he did not do.
I guess I'll quote Al Pacino "Never get attached to anything, that a sudden drop of a hat, you can release and walk away from, for that will be what destroys you"
Have fun in life, the way you feel life should be lived by your standards. With one woman or 1,000. If your lucky to have either.
Mixx