To a large degree, you just have to accept that you have limited control.
Girls drop off for all sorts of reasons- they just wanted sex(i.e. they pumped and dumped you), they found a guy or guys they like better, you didn't sex them up well enough, other things are going on in their lives, they just aren't feeling you anymore, they're looking for a commitment which they sense you aren't willing to give and so on.
This is why game theory emphasizes the necessity of pipelining-if you want to have a harem you have to constantly be bringing girls into your orbit. The age group you are targeting compounds your problem-I think late 20s to early 30s are the toughest chicks to both bang and keep around because they know they are approaching the end of their prime and are looking to make the best marriage deal they can before they reach their expiration date, so they can have absurdly high demands and standards
Girls drop off for all sorts of reasons- they just wanted sex(i.e. they pumped and dumped you), they found a guy or guys they like better, you didn't sex them up well enough, other things are going on in their lives, they just aren't feeling you anymore, they're looking for a commitment which they sense you aren't willing to give and so on.
This is why game theory emphasizes the necessity of pipelining-if you want to have a harem you have to constantly be bringing girls into your orbit. The age group you are targeting compounds your problem-I think late 20s to early 30s are the toughest chicks to both bang and keep around because they know they are approaching the end of their prime and are looking to make the best marriage deal they can before they reach their expiration date, so they can have absurdly high demands and standards
"If anything's gonna happen, it's gonna happen out there!- Captain Ron