Quote: (12-16-2012 08:24 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:
I sound like a total pussy but the other thing that sucks is this is a relatively small city for having pro teams, nightlife, etc. So when I'm rebounding and dating 6's she WILL see me, and I'll feel like a loser again. Any advice for how to be happy returning to my usual rotation of 6's and 6.5's and keep my head up? It's like that old saying it's hard to go back to hamburger after you've tasted filet.
The last 8 that I hooked up with was on a work retreat last year and it practically ruined my happiness for 3 months until I got over not being able to hook up with 8's on the reg.
This sounds like you're too in your own head. Or self esteem issues.
My last serious gf was a solid 8. Because of her physical beauty, she was an awful girlfriend. I had no trouble dumping her and chasing after new poon that wasn't as hot.
Don't worry about what other girls think. You can fantasize about bagging a supermodel 9 and having this chick find out about it and writhe in jealous anger, but what do you really get out of it? Not much. It won't make you happy.
Don't worry so much about the status of banging a girl this hot. Instead of thinking, "Oh man oh man oh man, here we go, I can't WAIT to plow this hot piece of ass." You should be thinking, "You know what? I've put in some serious hard work. I've gone through the motions. I deserve this and a whole lot more." This is a self esteem thing. Hold yourself in the highest regard and you'll never pedestalize another bitch again.
If you need help with self esteem or confidence, hit the gym. Spend more time doing stuff you're good at. Work on your personal life and improving your mental outlook and then bring that into your frame when interacting with bitches.