It takes easily 10x (maybe 100x) less energy to attract a new woman than it does to re-kindle a lost one.
I lost focus when an old gf started talking some pretty good stuff to me.... I tuned out everything around me (other potential) and she's flaked again - I see her flaws now, and realize I'm better than that, and that there are women more attractive, with less turmoil going on inside them that this one has. wtf was I thinking, lol.
So, anyone in the same boat as I've been in the last 3 months - trust me and everyone else that's said it before me. Get over it... move on! She lost you - not the other way around!!
I lost focus when an old gf started talking some pretty good stuff to me.... I tuned out everything around me (other potential) and she's flaked again - I see her flaws now, and realize I'm better than that, and that there are women more attractive, with less turmoil going on inside them that this one has. wtf was I thinking, lol.
So, anyone in the same boat as I've been in the last 3 months - trust me and everyone else that's said it before me. Get over it... move on! She lost you - not the other way around!!