Quote: (12-08-2012 02:43 AM)lavidaloca Wrote:
i've never picked up a girl at the gym nor have any of my friends. i've seen a couple funny attempts but really its not much of a spot for pickup. if you want to pickup why not take spin bike classes and the likes and suggest to grab a some food or whatever. i think that would be more conductive to approaching.
in my area gym is all about social circle. get to know everyone. you'll see them at parties. either invite yourself or make the party yourself. it is not the ONS mentality, it builds up over several weeks. much more rapport and comfort and very casual flirting than anything direct. enjoy talking to the girl, and nothing more. one thing leads to another with a little direction from you eventually.