I think I'm spending too much time "gaming" and wanted to get some feedback. I did search, and the closest thread I could come up with was this one. However that dealt with more finding time to game when busy, rather than reducing the amount of time one spends gaming.
As a side effect of being somewhat burnt out on the whole pursuit of women thing, I started to actually take note of how much physical time I spend on this. A typical week of game related activities looks like this for me:
- Going out at night, probably 3x a week to game new girls. About 6 hours each night (2 shower/dress/predrink/commute, 4 at bar). 18 hours.
- Hungover recovery next day, minimum 3 hours per night out whether it's extra sleep or just being useless. 9 hours.
- Dates per week, vary from 1-3. So let's say 2, at 3 hours each (2.5 hour date, 30 min prep). 6 hours.
- Reading game related blogs and this forum. Roughly 1 hour a day x 7 days. 7 hours.
- Discussing game/strategy with red pill friends. Roughly 20 minutes a day x 7 days. Round it to 2 hours.
- Text/calls to girls. Roughly totaling 2 hours.
So we have a estimated total of 44 hours, or nearly 2 full days per week. Now one other thing I have to say is there is absolutely no denying that all this time spent works, and works well. I started my "craze" about a year ago. In that year, I've had sex with as many girls as I've had in my entire life previously. And that is just the sex part, lifestyle wise it has helped me tremendously too. So I have to embrace those results. But I'm just tired. And I have two businesses I'm working on, trying to organize my life to move abroad for some time, and so on.
I know some of the answer lies in daygame but it's hard to fight with the ease and quickness of night game. Though one could argue given the majority of my gaming time stems from night game, I should explore day game as a means to reduce the overall time. The more important question I have, is am I actually spending too much time on pursuing girls? A part of me wants to put things on hold for a while and work on other aspects of my life. But game is something that gets rusty and I hate to have put forth so much effort only to regress by not continuing at the rate that I am.
Is this the typical amount of time you guys put in, or am I just a deviant?
As a side effect of being somewhat burnt out on the whole pursuit of women thing, I started to actually take note of how much physical time I spend on this. A typical week of game related activities looks like this for me:
- Going out at night, probably 3x a week to game new girls. About 6 hours each night (2 shower/dress/predrink/commute, 4 at bar). 18 hours.
- Hungover recovery next day, minimum 3 hours per night out whether it's extra sleep or just being useless. 9 hours.
- Dates per week, vary from 1-3. So let's say 2, at 3 hours each (2.5 hour date, 30 min prep). 6 hours.
- Reading game related blogs and this forum. Roughly 1 hour a day x 7 days. 7 hours.
- Discussing game/strategy with red pill friends. Roughly 20 minutes a day x 7 days. Round it to 2 hours.
- Text/calls to girls. Roughly totaling 2 hours.
So we have a estimated total of 44 hours, or nearly 2 full days per week. Now one other thing I have to say is there is absolutely no denying that all this time spent works, and works well. I started my "craze" about a year ago. In that year, I've had sex with as many girls as I've had in my entire life previously. And that is just the sex part, lifestyle wise it has helped me tremendously too. So I have to embrace those results. But I'm just tired. And I have two businesses I'm working on, trying to organize my life to move abroad for some time, and so on.
I know some of the answer lies in daygame but it's hard to fight with the ease and quickness of night game. Though one could argue given the majority of my gaming time stems from night game, I should explore day game as a means to reduce the overall time. The more important question I have, is am I actually spending too much time on pursuing girls? A part of me wants to put things on hold for a while and work on other aspects of my life. But game is something that gets rusty and I hate to have put forth so much effort only to regress by not continuing at the rate that I am.
Is this the typical amount of time you guys put in, or am I just a deviant?