In the future you have to imply that the coffee shop will not be the final destination. Next time say this: "Let's start at coffee castle and then head up to this other spot that i know." Then at the coffee shop you don't ask but tell her that you guys are going down the street to somewhere else.
The fact that she declined is a bad sign (she didn't want to continue the night), but i would definitely try to get her out again, straight to the bar (no more coffee shops).
The fact that she declined is a bad sign (she didn't want to continue the night), but i would definitely try to get her out again, straight to the bar (no more coffee shops).
Roosh
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