The answer is filed under "basic Game knowledge."
There's a huge variety of this exact question answered in almost every book on Game. Most blogs also provide some ideas.
I'd recommend you pick up some of the more popular Game Theory e-books, and dig in deeper into the huge range of blogs that cover the topic.
I don't go for SNL/ONS myself, so taking someone into my personal castle of the kingdom is a non-issue. If I meet someone, they really really really would need to stun me in some way in order to replace a currently spinning plate. Still, I think what a lot of guys who like the SNL/ONS lifestyle do is pretty solid: incorporate something you have at home (say, a great cocktail you make, or funny YouTube videos you like, etc) into your conversations. Don't say "I have these at home", just incorporate the idea into your stories.
When you're ready to bounce, use an excuse ("this place is getting too crowded" or "the drinks here are pretty pricey") and then bring up your hook ("Let's go, I'll make you that drink I talked about" or "Let's go watch some of those videos"). Better yet, just bounce and let her follow you ("It's a surprise").
Again, this is beginner Game Theory and if you haven't read the greats, I recommend you do that first.
There's a huge variety of this exact question answered in almost every book on Game. Most blogs also provide some ideas.
I'd recommend you pick up some of the more popular Game Theory e-books, and dig in deeper into the huge range of blogs that cover the topic.
I don't go for SNL/ONS myself, so taking someone into my personal castle of the kingdom is a non-issue. If I meet someone, they really really really would need to stun me in some way in order to replace a currently spinning plate. Still, I think what a lot of guys who like the SNL/ONS lifestyle do is pretty solid: incorporate something you have at home (say, a great cocktail you make, or funny YouTube videos you like, etc) into your conversations. Don't say "I have these at home", just incorporate the idea into your stories.
When you're ready to bounce, use an excuse ("this place is getting too crowded" or "the drinks here are pretty pricey") and then bring up your hook ("Let's go, I'll make you that drink I talked about" or "Let's go watch some of those videos"). Better yet, just bounce and let her follow you ("It's a surprise").
Again, this is beginner Game Theory and if you haven't read the greats, I recommend you do that first.