Got a monster of a hamster text last night. Went out last Wednesday with this girl for the first time who was a real hard ass with shit tests which I breezed through, and we arranged to meet up again last night for drinks. I changed the plan at about 4pm yesterday afternoon and said we're going to a bar where my mates are for his birthday, she agreed.
Met up, got to the bar, she was laughing at my jokes, holding on to me and kissing me all night. Everyone could tell she really liked me. We all walked to get some food later on and she stopped me in the street away from the others to kiss me etc etc. Anyway, we got to a kebab shop, she ordered a taxi home and I was going to my mate's all confident in the next time we met up I'd get the lay (she invited me over next week when she gets into her new place to cook for me). Her taxi got there, I walked her outside and kissed her before she got in and that was that. 15 minutes later I get this text:
"Just a heads up, don't think we'll be seeing each other again. Let me think on it and I will text you in the week".
I didn't reply.
Half an hour later:
"I just got home. I'm not even going to play games, I don't want to see you again. It was only our second date and it showed no consideration for what I'd like, how I'd feel, getting to know me, doing something nice, making me comfortable and even in the end making sure I was safe - you left me to get a taxi home without even checking I had the money to cover it. Just because you can put on a facade, does not make you a man. A man, alpha, beta, whatever form, still pays attention, puts in effort, protects and provides. You did none of those. Good luck in your search, if this is how you treat women, especially on a second date. I'm not what you're looking for."
Hahaha. Any suggestions of a reply welcome.
Met up, got to the bar, she was laughing at my jokes, holding on to me and kissing me all night. Everyone could tell she really liked me. We all walked to get some food later on and she stopped me in the street away from the others to kiss me etc etc. Anyway, we got to a kebab shop, she ordered a taxi home and I was going to my mate's all confident in the next time we met up I'd get the lay (she invited me over next week when she gets into her new place to cook for me). Her taxi got there, I walked her outside and kissed her before she got in and that was that. 15 minutes later I get this text:
"Just a heads up, don't think we'll be seeing each other again. Let me think on it and I will text you in the week".
I didn't reply.
Half an hour later:
"I just got home. I'm not even going to play games, I don't want to see you again. It was only our second date and it showed no consideration for what I'd like, how I'd feel, getting to know me, doing something nice, making me comfortable and even in the end making sure I was safe - you left me to get a taxi home without even checking I had the money to cover it. Just because you can put on a facade, does not make you a man. A man, alpha, beta, whatever form, still pays attention, puts in effort, protects and provides. You did none of those. Good luck in your search, if this is how you treat women, especially on a second date. I'm not what you're looking for."
Hahaha. Any suggestions of a reply welcome.