You can't think your way to being a man.
You can't meditate yourself to greatness.
Confidence comes from achievement.
What does confidence mean? It is a rock solid belief in your ability to subject your environment to your will. Knowing what you want in life, from yourself and from others, and knowing how to get that. Your confident when you know how to get shit done.
How will you get this belief?
By learning to get things done. Simple. And fucking hard, because this takes a lot of commitment, a lot of blood, sweat, soil and tears. Nothing worth achieving is going to be easy, because if it were easy everyone would have it, and that would render it worthless.
Play a sport. Grow muscles. Score more points. Sweat your ass off, and then see your improving results.
Get more girls. Approach, get rejected, succeed, learn from it and again see the improvement over time.
You will become confident when you start seeing the link between your hard work and the fruits of that labor. And for what thinking is worth: only care about the judgement of people who have deserved that special position. Why care about strangers? Take action and take responsibility, and be the one to evaluate your own worth.
You can't meditate yourself to greatness.
Confidence comes from achievement.
What does confidence mean? It is a rock solid belief in your ability to subject your environment to your will. Knowing what you want in life, from yourself and from others, and knowing how to get that. Your confident when you know how to get shit done.
How will you get this belief?
By learning to get things done. Simple. And fucking hard, because this takes a lot of commitment, a lot of blood, sweat, soil and tears. Nothing worth achieving is going to be easy, because if it were easy everyone would have it, and that would render it worthless.
Play a sport. Grow muscles. Score more points. Sweat your ass off, and then see your improving results.
Get more girls. Approach, get rejected, succeed, learn from it and again see the improvement over time.
You will become confident when you start seeing the link between your hard work and the fruits of that labor. And for what thinking is worth: only care about the judgement of people who have deserved that special position. Why care about strangers? Take action and take responsibility, and be the one to evaluate your own worth.