Quote: (10-29-2012 08:42 AM)Moma Wrote:
Boston, are you talking marriage here or are you just talking baby mother? If marriage, can you break down her background? What race is she? Did she grow up in America?
Even if you aren't talking marriage, I think you should just play it safe and hold out until you've seen her for 2 months.
Are you thinking of her just for gene propagation or you think you would like to be 'kind of' in her life?
If it's just gene propagation, I would say, scrutinise her for about 2 years. You've been watching her for 8 months so you have another 16 months to go.
If it's for the long haul, I would say watch her like Colombo. Go on a small trip with her, see how she acts outside of her comfort zone.
Because some lizards are very sweet in the preliminary stage and they turn into Komodo dragons after.
Not saying that to discourage you, I am just asking that you appeal to your male logic. Vet her as a doctor that is interested in switching to being an attorney (solicitor) would.
My biological urge is impregnation+gene propagation. But the societal shit like marriage comes into play (as in my middle eastern parents will kill me, no joke, with a knife, if I got some lizard pregnant and didn't marry her). I think this is like having that dessert that you know is not good for you/having that one extra drink that will send you over type of situation.
She's white, born and raised in the USA (red flag I know).
I appreciate the real talk. You're definitely right about the 2 years + a few trips with her to see whats up. I'm going to start having to wrap it up again from jump.
Thanks for pulling me back from the brink, boss. I needed to have some parameters. Give her 2 years and see whats up.