So I am making approach attempts, at least to some girls in class. Yesterday I spontaneously opened an attractive Indian girl. Asking her if she was from south India. I was confident and her response was super positive. She introduced her self and gave her hand. Then I left to go out with a buddy.
So today I figured I'd ask her to some ice cream this weekend. Everything about thus second approach was bad. My state, positioning, and it was kind of needy. She was completely different and ignored me. It was amazing to see the difference.
None of this is surprising of course. But I think doing it and experiencing it is what really teaches you. You have to close when she's responding positively. Strike when the iron is hot. Because the next day she will have gone cold. Basically ABC.
The good thing is that I made myself approach more or less knowing it was not going to work AND I didn't feel any pain. It was just a lesson learned.
So today I figured I'd ask her to some ice cream this weekend. Everything about thus second approach was bad. My state, positioning, and it was kind of needy. She was completely different and ignored me. It was amazing to see the difference.
None of this is surprising of course. But I think doing it and experiencing it is what really teaches you. You have to close when she's responding positively. Strike when the iron is hot. Because the next day she will have gone cold. Basically ABC.
The good thing is that I made myself approach more or less knowing it was not going to work AND I didn't feel any pain. It was just a lesson learned.