Overcoming negativity and bitterness - plus life lessons from a unique natural
09-26-2012, 09:47 PMQuote: (09-22-2012 06:25 PM)Hannibal Wrote:
The natural alphas act like they're alpha, but they think solipsistically so they don't see what all the fuss is about with women. It also doesn't hurt them much to preach the blue pill, since they've been the embodiment of red pill since day one. The betas don't know what they're doing wrong, so they rationalize all kinds of stupid stuff, or they just hate women entirely. Then there's guys like me who did the research and observed their natural alpha friends in order to get laid like them.
I definitely relate to this. I grew up more or less beta and have had to train myself to think and act like an alpha. I have been burned by a lot of women. I would always try to make sense of the situation or rationalize their behavior which would only make me angrier. I started reading RVF because of my negative experiences--because I wanted to be more like my natural alpha friends. I wanted to be able to bang every beautiful woman I met.
Reading this forum hasn't made me angrier. It has put a lot of things into perspective. Women are all grown children. It is nearly impossible to make sense of their behavior. And it is pointless to get angry with them when they pull some stupid bullshit. It's just what they do. Feminism has fucked everything up. It is a waste of energy to fight it. We can't undo it.
Proper perspective is key to success in life. We have no control over most of the things that go on around us. But we can control how we respond to them. Choosing to be angry or negative is counterproductive. It doesn't get you laid. Don't focus on what isn't working. Focus on enjoying your life and remaining positive. That will get you laid