[smashley]

I seem to often get asked via text "So can I dress casual" or "What should I wear". Even if the venue already suggests it to them.

I have before gone with "Look good" and had a flake..

I guess it takes context and my previous flake may have been for other reasons, but say on a first date...

You want them to look good, but you don't know what casual means to each girl. Sometimes casual is heels and a dress, sometimes its a sweatshirt and jeans..

Keep it light "sure but something nice" or go direct "wear heels"?

Any good responses to this?