YinPrincess got her man to wait a whole YEAR. Women will always back other women on shit like this - the whole "he wasn't worth it if he wasn't willing to wait for it" bullshit. He sounded like a great guy, but even "nice" guys want to fuck. And soon. If this guy had been fucking other chicks while she decided when she was going to fuck, it wouldn't have been so bad. But he was nursing blue balls, while the ex smashed after a few hours.
It's also hilarious how chicks will say that making their man wait is the reason why they're happy and still together. Bullshit. It's all the other things that keep you together - when you first fucked has nothing to do with any of those things. You can smash on the first date, find you have nothing else going on, then part ways. Or you can smash on date one, find you click in a bunch of other ways, and continue seeing each other and fucking to your heart's content. The problem is chicks feel like they gave up something for nothing if at least a short-term relationship doesn't grow out of that first encounter. That's how they justify not fucking the next guy - but it's okay for him to invest all kinds of time and money in them for nothing.
I read a little further, and she actually admits that she played homie like a chump and he had every right to feel the way he did. Chicks staying close friends with ex's is always curious to me, from both sides of it. Introducing them to the current BF, and then being cool with them getting tight is strange to me because you have to figure intimate details are going to get shared at some point. The way these posters are criticizing the ex is weak, because ex-GFs will almost always get in the ear of current GFs if they feel they got burned.
It's also hilarious how chicks will say that making their man wait is the reason why they're happy and still together. Bullshit. It's all the other things that keep you together - when you first fucked has nothing to do with any of those things. You can smash on the first date, find you have nothing else going on, then part ways. Or you can smash on date one, find you click in a bunch of other ways, and continue seeing each other and fucking to your heart's content. The problem is chicks feel like they gave up something for nothing if at least a short-term relationship doesn't grow out of that first encounter. That's how they justify not fucking the next guy - but it's okay for him to invest all kinds of time and money in them for nothing.
I read a little further, and she actually admits that she played homie like a chump and he had every right to feel the way he did. Chicks staying close friends with ex's is always curious to me, from both sides of it. Introducing them to the current BF, and then being cool with them getting tight is strange to me because you have to figure intimate details are going to get shared at some point. The way these posters are criticizing the ex is weak, because ex-GFs will almost always get in the ear of current GFs if they feel they got burned.
"The best kind of pride is that which compels a man to do his best when no one is watching."