Quote: (09-04-2012 05:33 PM)Castor Troy Wrote:
Serendipity. That made me laugh, in the past year no less than three girls I've dated (19-24 age range) have told me it was their favorite movie. One even said she was so into me because I made her feel like she was in the movie. Pathetic- but I guess I was doing something right.
I'm in Toronto right now and I would say even if you bang the girl on a first date you can still be flaked on. I went out with a girl last week I met through friends and I played it well, had a few drinks and ended up getting the same night bang. She was really in to it saying how much she liked me and how she "never does this," (right). We ended up banging like five times and she kept telling me how good it was etc. Anyway, I really wasn't that in to this girl anyway but I messaged a couple days after the fact asking something simple like "hey what's up?" and she was ice cold. Like I said, I really wasn't that in to it and this girl is like a 7 at best. I'm dating two other girls at the moment so I can't really say I give a flying fuck but man, if you bang a girl well, five times in one night and she STILL will flake on you after things must be getting bad.
This is the only time a girl has flaked on me after a first night bang and maybe it was just a one off but there is definitely a lot of truth to this thread.
If you've already fucked her, let her initiate first contact. She will do so without fail.
There was a time I fucked a girl in a ONS. She asked for my phone number, but I felt like fucking with her head so I told her I'd tell her "later." Ended up fucking her through the night and we ate breakfast at a pancake place nearby. Had a conversation and found I liked her intelligence.
I said, "you know, I actually like you as a person." At this point, she did a 180 and started acting cold. When I dropped her off at her apartment, she said we shouldn't see each other again. I told her "Thanks for the fuck" and drove off. Indeed, I never saw her again and don't remember her name.
Moral of the story: if you've already fucked her, let her do the pursuing.