[TheMan]

(08-25-2012 05:12 PM)joehoya Wrote:  

Back in my worst beta days, I must confess that I was guilty of doing some punk ass, backstabbing, beta/omega shit like this ONCE.

I have a buddy who is quite possibly the smoothest natural player I have ever met. The dude had his mack game tighter at age 14 than most guys who claim to be PUAs have it after 5 years of practice. Keep in mind that this was almost a decade before mystery hit the scene.

Well in high school as a senior I started hanging with this freshman girl. Just friends (I was WAY too much of a pussy to go further). Two years later, I start hanging out with her again over summer break (still as a friend) but my super-player friend takes an interest in her. We are both in college but she is still in high school. It must be said that at this time my player friend had begun to "explore his sexuality" and started fucking dudes as well as girls.

Anyway, I am talking to the girl and she makes a passing remark that lets me know that she is at least a little interested in my friend. She was a fairly conservative girl, but I bet that she would have been open to hooking up/getting dicked down by him. Me being the complete beta douche that I was back then mentioned "Yeah X is a great guy and really open with himself. In fact he just came out of the closet as bisexual."

The look on her face was as if someone farted in her mouth. She tried to play it off like she wasn't completely grossed out by it, but I knew that I had struck a cord. She kept probing, asking questions about whether I was sure or not. I gave details of him coming out to a bunch of other folks, AND me seeing him make out publicly with guys and having guys stay the night with him. I kept saying it like it was a good thing that he could be comfortable being himself around friends, but really it was all to turn this chick off. She even checked with her best friend, who was also friends with another of his friends and got it confirmed.

From that point on, she had ZERO sexual interest in him. Keep in mind that everything I said was true and none of it was secret. HOWEVER it was still the most douchebag thing I have ever done to a friend (I can't remember doing anything worse), all because I wanted to keep him away from a chick that I had a crush on. I don't feel guilty about many things in my life but I STILL feel guilty about that.

In the end, it didn't amount to shit. Sure, I prevented him from fucking her, but I NEVER FUCKED HER EITHER. I pussed out and never made a move. So what was the point? It was like throwing away a friend's slice of pizza because you can't afford one of your own.

In the years that followed, I did try to make it up for him. Any time he was gaming a hot girl that had an plain/ugly friend, I was the guy who fell on the grenade for him (more times than I care to remember). Anytime he needed someone to give him cover so that he could cheat on his girlfriend, I was there.

After awhile we became a pretty good team and would talk the other up to different girls. I remember him running game on this tall gorgeous stripper just to set her up for me (it worked). He is also the only dude (aside from some group sex parties/gangbangs) that I have shared a girl with one night. We both gamed this chick back to a hotel room and passed her back and forth between us 5 or 6 times. Good times.

Then he got married and the party stopped.

BOOOOOOO

...not at you did at him getting married.

Seriously though, that's cool dude you know what you did and have the balls to admit / fix it and when you did it you felt bad after. Part of what pisses me off is that it just seems like these cunts don't even realize / acknowledge that what they're doing is so wack, dishonorable and anti-masculine, quite the opposite some of them are even kinda smug about it.