One thing to add is if you're primarily a day gamer, you don't number-close, you coffee-close. Get her away from what she's doing, have a cup of coffee with her, and THEN number close.
You're making her pass your tests at that point, and if she succeeds, you'll known whether or not to waste an actual "date" on her in the future.
You're making her pass your tests at that point, and if she succeeds, you'll known whether or not to waste an actual "date" on her in the future.