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(08-17-2012 11:23 PM)Dan Wrote:  

About a year ago, I dumped this girl. She was a cute 8, but tremendously inexperienced. Since she refused to suck my dick or let me finger her after three weeks, it was time to give her the boot.

(Yeah, I know I waited too long.)

A couple of weeks ago, I hit her up and we've hung out twice. We've kissed and I felt her up, but nothing more. She lives an hour away. I want this girl off my case if she isn't going to fuck me.

However, it's too easy/dick to just throw her away without learning anything. I want to figure out if by complimenting her nonstop and being needy, I can actually pull her closer.

I know the result will be she will want out, which is what I want. But I want to try wanting her so much, she runs. The great thing is I can try this out on a girl who has turned me off.

This is probably going to be weird for both her and I because I've shown higher value by caring less about our relationship. But I'm fine doing it, and actually excited to see what ensues.

Let's end this shit!

Either gives her a shitload of pre-selection/drama/jealousy plot or abandon the whole thing. Your neediness plan sucks.

I have been in your situation in my beta days when I was dating a Indian girl back home in 2006. We dated for a month, broke up, dated for another month a few months later but she wasn't giving it up at all. She was my first non-white girl back in the day and I was determent to make it work.

We broke up again and I never saw her again.

I know a few guys here are raising eyebrown when hearing i was dating an Indian girl but she was very beautiful ( Tony Braxton lookalike) and was adopted by Dutch people from 3 year of age so she grew up without the whole Indian Blue elephant man religion or class society. still she had Indian princess threats in her genes.