if it makes you uncomfortable, talk to other girls (she is).. keep a few dating options open.. that'll relax you.
I would never talk to an ex unless I still wanted to bang her, reopened contact recently with one of several years ago after I saw her in a bikini on facebook. Sure, I'm interested in how she's doing and what she's up to, but if I had no hope/interest/expectation of banging her.. it wouldn't happen.
Tell her that even. I've put an end to this in the past, actually stopped seeing a girl over it... a few months later I saw her and her ex-ex in a pool hall.
I would never talk to an ex unless I still wanted to bang her, reopened contact recently with one of several years ago after I saw her in a bikini on facebook. Sure, I'm interested in how she's doing and what she's up to, but if I had no hope/interest/expectation of banging her.. it wouldn't happen.
Tell her that even. I've put an end to this in the past, actually stopped seeing a girl over it... a few months later I saw her and her ex-ex in a pool hall.