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peterthephoenix Wrote:

• Being raised as a nice guy, you never learn to do this. You're never put in a social situation where you have to lead and do the work, you always just passively follow.
  
  • Being nice and being a leader are independent of each other. Nice guys can be leaders and Dicks can pretend to be leaders and run good ideas (and friendships) into the ground.
    
• It's just the type of attitude that most Western girls love because a guy who always puts his own needs and amusement first is attractive.
  
  • You need specific examples of what you are talking about.
• Dickheads are self-centred, good at teasing, carefree, always able to have fun in a situation.
  
  • Nice guys are able to be all of those things you mentioned. Again you have to give specific examples of what you are talking about.
• after you've been around it for a while you understand how to use it to your advantage.
  
  • I have never met a "dickhead" I wanted to be friends with and I have zero experience with treating people badly for no reason.