[WireySpindell]

(07-06-2012 07:49 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  

(07-06-2012 02:12 PM)WireySpindell Wrote:  

(07-06-2012 11:49 AM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  

(07-06-2012 09:01 AM)WireySpindell Wrote:  

(07-05-2012 12:56 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  

Don't get me wrong. People in Belo Horizonte were friendly and I had a decent time. But when it came to closing with girls, it was pretty hard and took a lot of work. They seemed a bit sheltered and closed off from the rest of the world. They were very aware that the city and the state of Minas Gerais produce some of the hottest girls in Brazil. This was not case in other 2nd tier cities in Brazil, that I lived in like Joao Pessoa, Natal and Brasilia. Wirey, how difficult were the girls to bang in Porto Alegre? Did you have much success? From seeing Brazilian movies that have been filmed there, it seems like it has potential.

I found the girls very easy to hook up with. I'd say like North American girls, but generally more direct and less BS (and hotter).

But to be honest, I find girls fairly easy anywhere I go, I don't get a lot of LMR and I generally can tell early if it's going to go anywhere and bail if any alarm bells go off. I've been in the game for 5+ years, and I guess I've developed the solid intuition, and find if you're generally not attached to the hook up and don't care either way, a little token LMR is all you'll get. Then again, my "defeating LMR tactic" is whipping my dick out and putting her hand on it. If she can resist after THAT, god bless her, that's a woman with strong will and I'd probably marry her on the spot.

I'm not saying this to brag, just trying to keep it real and tell you where I'm coming from. Another person might go to PA and have a totally different experience.

Cool, Porto Alegre seems like a place worth checking out. If they are like North American girls, in terms of hooking up, they are definitely easier than the Mineiras in Belo Horizonte. A couple of question if I may Wirey, so we can get an insight into your success in PA:
How are your portuguese skills? How old are you and do you have the classic tall blond look the girls adore in Brazil? How many dates did you need on average to get the bang over there?
With Belo Horizonte girls the average for me was 3 dates. Also, I am a like skinned Latino American so I passed like a native in BH, until they heard my accent in portuguese.

All right,

1) Portuguese skills are non-existent. So yeah, a lot of girls you're done right off the bat. I remember once in a loud club, getting close with this girl, making out a bit on the dance floor, taking funny pics with her friends camera... then we get somewhere quiet and I figure out she doesn't speak a word of English, lol. But, fI did meet a lot of girl who speak English, at least a few solid groups every time I went out, that's fine by me.

2) I'm blonde, but not tall, like 5'8". Kind of muscular and fit though, I take care of myself. Honestly, the looks/height thing... meh. Girls say they want a guy to look a certain way... but many a time I've competed against a guy who fits that standard (tall, model look), but my game was sharper, and I got the girl. Lost girls to uglier guys in my time too, lol. Mostly doesn't matter, IMO. I've been into RSD for like 5+ years, so I've had that hammered in pretty deep. Whether it's always objectively true 100%, I don't care... it's a belief that pays off for the most part.

3) Dates, lol... my general MO was hit the club, spend an hour or two meeting all the girls there, do a second round to see who I really liked and who seemed receptive, then choosing one and going for the hook up that night. "Hey let's get some food" and then going to my apartment was generally it, girl just needs an excuse so her friends won't judge her, once you get her alone, kiss her and take total responsibility for where things go. 60% of the time, it works EVERYTIME (that's not a real stat, just wanted to quote Anchorman)

But yeah, sometimes there's logistical issues (usually her friends, the trickiest part is allowing her to separate from her friends discreetly). If so, I'd go for a 2nd date, if it's just us two you can bet I'll be kissing her and taking her home, or at least trying my best to do so. I can see 3rd date scenarios coming up, but as a general rule I get physical as soon as possible. The weirdness of moving too soon in no way compares to the weirdness of trying to get physical on the 3rd date out of nowhere, IMO, and it saves you time as well.

Good insights. Belo Horizonte girls moved fast, in terms, of kissing. Had no problem kissing, many girls there, the first time I met them. But banging the first night in BH is pretty damn difficult. Any forum member who has been there, will tell you the same.....though if there are guys, who cracked the code, I would like to hear from them.
Porto Alegre, just moved up in the list of new cities I want to try in Brazil.
Couldn't get a short term apartment in BH, which hindered me somewhat. In the end I banged 7 or 8 girls in 7 weeks so it wasnt too bad, but not like the NE of Brazil. So 2 more questions Wirey, if I may: how old are you and how did you go about finding a furnished apartment...without a "fiador" garantor or a long term contract.

I'm 30, was 27-28 when I was there. I just Googled it and found a furnished apartment for 1 month.